In our life, we do things which may be right or wrong. Even we know, we will not accept things. Accepting in the sense that 'yes, I have done this and this is right' or 'yes, i am sorry. It's wrong'.
But I think many of us can not do this. If keeping professional talking apart, I like to make things clear. In relationships other than you business, the person must keep transparency. It means if you know thing are not well, you should accept it. May be it's your fault? Making things clear with your friends, family and loved ones is the key which keeps your relations very neat and clean.
I have seen things which are not good for relationships. It hurts when it reaches at saturation point because every thing and every one has their own limits. Relations will get punished by yourself and because of your mistakes if you don't understand it properly and take actions to prevent it.
I don't what will happen to such a person if relations going to be broken. May be he will suffer from loneliness and feeling guilty for the whole life for the mistakes he has made!
Update - 23rd March, 2008: Jay has written a nice article "Never late to mend" after reading this post. He has shown a very common incident, may be happened with each of us. But what he has done after that, is so uncommon. And we all should remember this in life, not to forget to ask and give for forgiveness if you know your mistakes.
But I think many of us can not do this. If keeping professional talking apart, I like to make things clear. In relationships other than you business, the person must keep transparency. It means if you know thing are not well, you should accept it. May be it's your fault? Making things clear with your friends, family and loved ones is the key which keeps your relations very neat and clean.
I have seen things which are not good for relationships. It hurts when it reaches at saturation point because every thing and every one has their own limits. Relations will get punished by yourself and because of your mistakes if you don't understand it properly and take actions to prevent it.
I don't what will happen to such a person if relations going to be broken. May be he will suffer from loneliness and feeling guilty for the whole life for the mistakes he has made!
Update - 23rd March, 2008: Jay has written a nice article "Never late to mend" after reading this post. He has shown a very common incident, may be happened with each of us. But what he has done after that, is so uncommon. And we all should remember this in life, not to forget to ask and give for forgiveness if you know your mistakes.
7 comments:
The tempest that you have expressed is complicated.
Your are right dude...
The truth is always seems complicated and bitter also :). But the way people think today, no value for relations, no friendship. All want to be ahead of all. And when they feel that they lost something, it is too late.
Hmm, is it more bitter than the bittergourds itself, i wonder. I like sweet truth.
Yeah you r right. What i do and probably you can try to do is value the relations myself and be sincere about it. Give without expectation of return. Soon truth will become simple and sweet contradictory to complicated and bitter. TC
Exactly, though your language is like some poet or writer :).
Relations are based on trust and love, not on give and take.So rather expecting from someone, we should do our part well. :)
Thanks and take care.
Being a little egocentric personality it was very hard for me to accept your thoughts but still i agree.
I remember one proverb in hindi "Subhah ka bhula sam ko ghar aa jaye to usse bhula nahi kahete"
We should never feel ashamed in accepting our mistake, that can redevelop the broken relationship.
@jay, right mate. In relationships, there should not any shame. And you must forgive if the person feels guilty.
Thanks.
You write very well.
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