Why hard to accept

In our life, we do things which may be right or wrong. Even we know, we will not accept things. Accepting in the sense that 'yes, I have done this and this is right' or 'yes, i am sorry. It's wrong'.

But I think many of us can not do this. If keeping professional talking apart, I like to make things clear. In relationships other than you business, the person must keep transparency. It means if you know thing are not well, you should accept it. May be it's your fault? Making things clear with your friends, family and loved ones is the key which keeps your relations very neat and clean.

I have seen things which are not good for relationships. It hurts when it reaches at saturation point because every thing and every one has their own limits. Relations will get punished by yourself and because of your mistakes if you don't understand it properly and take actions to prevent it.

I don't what will happen to such a person if relations going to be broken. May be he will suffer from loneliness and feeling guilty for the whole life for the mistakes he has made!

Update - 23rd March, 2008: Jay has written a nice article "Never late to mend" after reading this post. He has shown a very common incident, may be happened with each of us. But what he has done after that, is so uncommon. And we all should remember this in life, not to forget to ask and give for forgiveness if you know your mistakes.

True friends can have telepathy...

Yes, I am not joking. This is the true thing happened to me.

It was not weekend though I was very much tired. Not because of my work but being alone and no friends' meet since last 15 days or so. I just dropped at the bus stop nearer to my home and walking towards home. Suddenly I saw a car which remembered me of my good friends. I thought may be he is here. Then I though oh god, he is far away from here about some 5000 Kms. I thought if he is here then we gonna a do lot of fun here. I went to home.

The next day, when I reached my office, doing my work, I got a call from the same friend whom I missed last night! He said, he is here since yesterday! I got amazed and told him also that I just missed you last night though you are here. We met that night and did a lot of fun together, talked so much and missed our school days :).

What you will call this? This is not co-incident, as this happens with me many times. And yeah, I believe in such things also. I think this is called true friendship, because of which we are bounded to our friends. The feeling is so strong that it creates a vibration in you and you can have feel of another person when he/she is around you or missing you. Otherwise you just think why I missed him that night only? I see many cars daily i mean. Then what's so special that night? I call this telepathy, which we Indians believe is a true feeling between your loved ones.

Do what you like; it’s not a waste of time...

I was fond of web publishing since my college days. About five years back, i was in college and we made a group of friends who look into new technologies on internet and find new things. We always wanted to know about things which are new and interesting. Specifically, I was interested in web publishing, writing etc.

I started blogging about 2 to 3 years back. I was more of like to share things. Make reviews, news and all technical information at one place. There was no purpose of making money from it; I just like to create it. It helps me and others in learning or knowing new things. I love blogging because it helps you grow your knowledge, gives you pleasure that you do something creative and also increases your interest in things.

After some 1 year, I got Google ad sense for my blog. Why because I got some good collection of quality and content on it. Its all about how you manage things. I heard from a friend and submitted my blog, and they given me ad sense account. After making my blog quite popular and informative, having good quantity and quality, now after more than a year I got my new domain for it.

When ever I show it to some guys, they always think that I wasted my time in making such nice thing which is not earning as much as it should. I told them that that’s not the purpose for which I started it. I started it because I like to write. Now may be it can help me earning some buck so I can maintain it with new domain. But if its not, then it doesn't mean I should close it or should stop blogging.

May be some day I can get good ads from some big advertisers :)! Or may be not, but that should not be the primary thing if I like to blog for my satisfaction.

And when I helped some to make blogs and how to manage things, they want it immediately in Google index search. I told them that we can't do anything in that except keep posting quality content. May be even you don't need to be in Google search if people like your writing. But some of them are feeling jealous of me that why I am having such a big content full blog? Dude, I have it because I am doing things since 2 years. Its not great thing, anyone can do it if he wants to. They don't like i blog and show them nice tutorials and etc. They want to do blogging for money. I told that if you start like this, then it’s hard to keep your quality. Because you always be in hurry to add more content, though it’s not of your interest!

I think people should do what they like to do. May be others think that you are wasting your time but it doesn't matter. You must keep doing things. If you do proper management and hard work, one day it will help you and gives you the result which may be differ then what you want but always be good :).

So, keep doing things :).

Olden days - golden days...

Hi all.

On my b'day, I am just doing stuff at my job place. And was thinking of my childhood. Ah! It feels very nice mates. It feels like heaven when I remember my olden days. Actually I should call them 'golden days'

yes, in true sense, I miss those days. When in vacation i was at my home town, playing with all friends there and no worries, nothing i need to take care of. My granny just yelling at me even she loves me because she cares for me. All we do is play, play and play! Always roaming in the small town, in the farms, under the trees, around the ponds and... Those were amazing days i mean.

My granny makes good meals for us, save us from everyone who yells at us to stop noise and stay quite. :) That’s the best thing in the world. It feels like you are the ling of the world and nothing matters to you. You only like to have fun as a child. We take mangoes and almonds from trees of the farms. Though sometimes the farmers, who don't know us ran after with the stick and stones. :) God bless them!

But things changed gradually. Small town is now some what big. Though some things never change at all, but its not the same place which I loved once. And even not i am the same one who likes to stay there, scream and play there!

I am now grown, a big boy working as a software Engineer in some foreigner firm, who never gets time now for playing something outdoor. I hardly get some time to visit my old friends. Though I visit my town every month or later but i can't meet all my friends. All my school friends are now far far away (not as in shreak we have :) ) from my place. Some friends who are like me ( who loves there home and got jobs nearby) are here with me. When ever me meet, we talk so much remembering our school days, our time when we never thought of something what we will do in future and always enjoyed.

To all, the thing i want to tell you is keep your friends, relatives and loved ones near you if possible. Don’t let them go away from your heart. Though you are far from them, you can tell them that you miss them and want to stay together. Having a friends' meet is the best thing in world.

So, a toast for all who miss their golden times. :)

God bless all.

The Art of Convincing - a gift i think :)

This is about how people make you feel and understand something as their way, what they want to show you.This is an art.You can say 'Art of healing' like thing. Or you can say get entrusted! :)

Yah and this kind of people are always make others start thinking about any point.May be its nice thing sometimes and also sometimes they make fool of them!:)

No really, i have seen thing like these happening.If you check around you, you will sure find it.Some people are good at language and give others time to think on point.Also they give kind of reasons why they are saying this in between.

I don't understand if the talk is not of your interest then why should you want to make other thinking your way.yah in generel talk we can share out thoughts but in some work related things or say desicion making , you should say the truth only instead of making the person confuse and feel him wrong!You must tell him the truth and suggest things as per it and thats why we human beings are here for!

As per me, everyone has his points and we must not oppose on everything.You can say your views ofcourse but in the right way:).

After all, humans are for helping each other, not to make others feel irritating about things they do.

This is about the wrong ones.Now talk about the nice ones.This is a quality,a skill which can help you in business.And as the world says,"everything is fair in bussiness".These things are the marketting strategies of today!

You can see mane ads daily on TV,newspapers,tabloids etc.They all are using their power, their art of making things look better and encourage people to use and buy the thing.This is the way how the world is growing helping each other in bussiness and keeping rotation of money chain. :)

Don't think that i am some financial analyzer :).I am just talking about things because i think its not with everyone.Some people are too smart and can work this way,make their purpose solved and we don't know even. May be in that its your benifit or your loss!

Some people don't think before they do things.May be they are good at others but its also a chance that others can use them!

But, the thing is that this art must be learned! :D yah... it can help you making your things ;) and also people think of you as a smart one ;) :D. Just joking, its a thing in nature, you cant take it but you can keeo it in mind while doing something.

write up here,make things better and smartness is a gift like logic and beauty!

corporates : is it only take & no give?

In corporates, the talk about loyalty is always a point of very long discussion.

some says, person must be loyal to company.some says, he should be loyal to work only.And some says,he should be loyal to the head person!

which one is to be listened? And say work is good for men,as we all know, what the work should do with men?I mean is loyalty is only from one side? Why people want things which they can't even think to give?

loyal to work is loyal to company.But is the company loyal to you? is it give job satisfaction,relexasation and fun to do work?is the environment is so transparent and good enough to clear all your doubts?

Cases have been seen when company tells someone to leave who had given many years there and helped growing it.And also things are satisfactory?

some companies just make the employees fool.they hire them saying they have fixed time shift and after joining person is forced to stay in the company upto latenight!Of course, this is required sometimes but when this 'sometimes' become 'daily',then the person understands the reality.Because the company wants things done ASAP, they just treat all employees like dead objects!Even after so much work, if the person have no appreciation then how he should behave?

Partiality is the big evil growing inside big corporates.What they do to employees who finishes their work in limit given? Even some are not allowed to use internet,phone,music and any such thing which can make them happy and feel relaxed while working!Even after completing his work also,these kind of things are counted in 'time waste' or 'abusage'.Who is abused here? the resources he uses because he is free after completing his work or the person himslef? The definition of 'abuse','misuse' and 'time waste' is always have different meanings for different persons.

Just think, the person is doing his work and not getting anything in response for appreciation.How it feels? Are they treated like slaves of the company who can't speak,cant smile,can't do anything which can give joy and make life easier?

If company wants loyalty and good work from employee then it should also give back things in reply.Person should be allowed to do legal things with work.If the person is happy and relaxed, the company will be. And then only he can think to stay there and want to help the company growing.

ya this is endless thing and i always think what is the solution for this.So i am ending this here.

what you think?