Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Don't make yourself very comfortable ...

Life is very complex friends, It shows different roles and things as you go. We all are used to things we like either for need or for luxury. We always been dependent on things which mostly of are enjoyment or facilities. And far most is, we want life to be stable, like every horse of the stable does what you want.

But, have you ever thought that if one day any of the horse makes you surprise by not obeying you? Here I mean horse by incidents, work or any doable which you always want according to yourself. Human mind is very powerful and also very mad in the sense of thinking. We always think that, "this will work so that will also work". We always build bridges of dreams, but we don't know that they are all imaginary. It can break at any time.

We always been comfortable to thing we used to. I know this is nothing you I am telling you, but let me tell you this is the most dangerous thing. What happens when situations go wrong? It doesn't mean we should always think negative, but don't think every time positive. People mentally brakes when things go wrong. When someone loses job/business, gets frustrated and being very aggressive they choose wrong paths. This is not what life is for.

Life is full of surprises. People always want settled life, no one wants a job like Jacky Chan of "Shanghai Noon"! But people forget that facilities and luxuries are making us very comfortable, making the tolerance power and immunity of mind very low. Our mind and body is not able to bear hard conditions because it can't live without such things. It should not be so. I am not anti-luxury person, but what I feel is, "Use thing in manner and as needed". Just try to avoid things which are trying to make you feel fear of loss, which makes you so comfortable that you can't live without it.

"Everything must be in our control" is idle condition, but it's not always true. So always be prepared for unwanted and unexpected things. Just don't loosen your mind in hard conditions and be thoughtful, be simple, believe in life and love it. Love the world around you, except your daily schedules try to find something new around yourself.

Facilities and Luxuries are made by us and for us, before that also humans were always been living life and more joyful than now. Then why binding life to such physical things? Make sure, that you are using the things, not the things making you use them. 

Don't bind your life in barriers of physical assets/luxuries. This gives you fear and makes you coward. Such people always afraid of life and think ,"what will we do if we lose these things?"

Make yourself strong enough to live the life joyfully in any condition either it's in favor or not...After all, that is what life is all about. Isn't it? :)

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